Does anyone know where i can buy my stepmother is an alien region 4 dvd? ebay and internet stores don't sell?

Why don't you find out the code for your DVD player to make it region free instead? Then you can buy whichever region DVD and they will all work. Try www.videohelp.com You put in your DVD model number and it will give you the code to unlock (unlike a lot of sites this one is free). It does work, I've done it on my own DVD player. If your player is brand new you may not be able to find the code yet.