Women only, please? Why does my ex still hate me, or act like she does?

when you keep doing the same thing over and over and expect different results that insane! You just happen to look at what was in front of you and not very deep. My thinking is you date to get to know the person and look for things you know you will not tolerate. We all have things others will not like about us. Even in a relationship/marriage there are boundaries right? I don't think your going to be able to keep seeing this person unless you want to stay stuck meaning you will not grow or look for that special person.She most likely don;t like herself very well, or she wouldn't choose men who treat her like this. So move on and good luck to you.Oh I am a women...been there done that.